you value your partner’s opinions, choices, and emotions

Respectful

Compassionate

Warm

you enjoy the lighter side of life while with your partner

Playful

you’re generally happy when in your partner’s companys

Joyful

you get excited about spending time with your partner

Enthusiastic

your needs often take the back seat in the relationship

Submissive

you are willing to take advice and feedback from your partner

Taking advice

you tend to try to fulfill your partner’s wishes

Obliging

you feel like you really need your partner

Dependent

you can be shy around other people when you’re with your partner

Timid

when you’re with your partner, you make jokes of comments at your own expense

Self-deprecating

you are the stronger personality in the partnership and tend to be the leader

Dominant

Managerial

Commanding

you come up with inspired ideas when you’re with your partner

Dynamic

when you’re with your partner, you’re unafraid of taking risks

Bold

when you’re with your partner, you feel like you could conquer the world

Confident

you don’t really feel much emotional connection to your partner

Cold

you’re distant and reserved with your partner

Aloof

you plan in advance how to get what you want from your partner

Calculating

you sometimes make your partner do things using indirect means

Manipulative

you sometimes lie or conceal things from your partner

Dishonest

you don’t feel bad about hurting your partner

Remorseless

you value your partner’s views as much as your own

Egalitarian

you try to provide your partner with solid advice

Wise

Affectionate

you feel safe and secure in the relationship

Calm

you see the relationship as a partnership

Cooperative

you’re always willing to assist your partner if required

Helpful

you tend to hold back around other people when you’re with your partner

Reserved

you listen to your partner and take in their ideas

Receptive

you let your partner take a more active role in the relationship

Passive

sometimes, you fear losing the relationship or worry about your partner’s reactions

Worried

you go to great lengths to ensure a harmonious relationship

Peacekeeping

you are willing to compromise for a mutually beneficial outcome

Compromise

you tend to brag a bit about the things you’ve done when with your partner

Boastful

you can be overconfident when you’re with your partner

Arrogant

Forceful

you don’t feel like you need your partner and are comfortable making decisions alone

Independent

Stern

you are comfortable standing up for yourself

Assertive

Untrusting

you get worried about what your partner is doing

Suspicious

sometimes you deliberately do mean things to tease or upset your partner

Provocative

you will follow your own goals, even if these conflict with your partner’s wellbeing

Ruthless

Unfriendly

you find it easy to disregard your partner’s feelings - or you’re not really aware of them at all

Insensitive

For each adjective, mark where you think you fit on the scale. Focus only on your behavior with your partner, not your relationships with other people.

Intertype Test

Discover your relationship personality type and understand your dynamics with your partner